Walking in my room

In his book "Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking", Malcolm Gladwell described a test in which participants are let to choose a way of knowing a person better: befriending with him in a year or spending several hours to take a close look into his room. It comes (as no) surprise (at least to me) that those traits built by those investigating the room were as accurate as those who spent quite a while knowing that person. Though the book is mostly about how guts and the so called 6th sense can affect the most important decisions in life, this test also reminds me of everyone-has-a-room, the metaphor one.

Let me skip through the part that everyone-has-a-room-sometimes-it's-welcoming-sometimes-the-door-is-slammed-in-your-face to the part how much people know (think they know) a person. Young (the real ones not those think they are) starts relationship without caring a damn about others, and that's good to some extends. Knowing a person is just like drinking a mix which (most of the time) contains poisons. You just need to get your body used to the poisonous mix, little by little...